Thursday, May 13, 2021

Veranda Vantage

 Sitting in the Veranda 

The rain came but the water at home didn’t 

The gardener came and dropped a vine of Giloy herb

The newspaper brought more news of mismanagement, dismay and  grief

The aircrafts sound like a thunderstorm and brake as they get to their destination sooner

The crows coo caw and rattle with different sounds

No need to water the plants as it has rained

A skinny young delivery boy rides a bycycle with  a deflated tyre

Amidst sips of ginger tea I glint at the floor to make sense of things I see hear and feel

Things have to be bought, menus have to be planned, problems have to be solved.

Souls have to be assuaged including mine 

Morales have to be built but first  mine...

Till then I enjoy the pre pre monsoon breeze and coolness on the skin...

Sunday, May 9, 2021

Coleslaw Connection

 Coleslaw Connection:Story of the Coleslaw Sandwich...

For a few days Coleslaw has been in the back of my mind .. 

A few days ago made Cabbage an I saved a portion of raw cabbage for later.. so today the craving came back and I crept into the kitchen in afternoon and started to prepare from scratch .. grated the cabbage finely... added mayonnaise ( thought of getting Hellman’s ) added salt, pepper, mustard .. was ready .. let it rest.


Later in Afternoon My Brother Sanjiv called from Dubai and talking of Kings and Cabbages... I told him , I have been craving for a coleslaw sandwich, yes a lowly coleslaw sandwich.

Memories went went back to Clubs, Cinemas and Coffee-shops back in the yonder where we had eaten them many many moons ago..

And I had as a travelling salesman grabbed at many a ready grab and go places .. also many years ago.. masquerading as veg sandwich or even a chicken sandwich with a hint of chicken in them 

He said it’s uncanny I just bought Coleslaw from Spinneys yesterday and was planning on one myself.. talk about telepathy and combined cravings across countries..

So here I am settling to my Sandwich and he was heading to have his and I am posting my pictures and hope to have his pictures soon for the Coleslaw Connection to be Completed..

Monday, April 26, 2021

Summer of 72

 Once during the summer holidays.. visiting Delhi as a young boy .. visited my Paternal Aunt .. in Pratap Bagh near Delhi University..

Her son who later was ordained to become a granthi (priest) in a gurudwara .

He was then an unemployed youth and he had set up an ice cream stall/ shop in the market .

So all afternoon on a summer day we toiled in churning ice cream out of fresh cream,  milk, fresh fruit, tutti-frutti and cherries to make this wonderful ice cream ..

Then loaded it to to the market and vended them all evening and late into the night ... with nothing to eat or drink and counting our earnings and feeling good about it ..

Many  lessons learnt in enterprise, hard labor, rewards in selling the fruits of your labor at a very young age .. besides memories are invaluable..

Boys to Men

 My First Flight Day : Boys to Men


Coimbatore... to Bangalore in a Dakota... felt like a grown up all of 13... accompanying my mother ... we made friends with other passengers at the lounge in Bangalore..

I got them snacks and and drinks in the lounge..

We were then routed to Hyderabad in a Fokker-Friendship.. oh I saw the billowing cotton fields of clouds .. felt like a dream...

Reached Hyderabad.. parted with our new friends...

Left from Hyderabad to Delhi in a massive Airbus ... remember the full elegant service .. soup , salad main course.. and coffee.. and yes sweets and most importantly collecting eau de cologne laden hand and face freshners..

With that one day , escorting my mom and new experiences made me grow up in a day ..

Landed at the airfield of Palam airport of Delhi .. at midnight on one of the coldest nights of 13 January 1979 ..wearing beige denim flares and a single front buttoned rust colored cardigan ... it was the coldest night ever.

Cheerfully received by my father .. who was  warm and friendly and very smartly announced .. WBG 8920 driver Kanhaiyalal ..on the PA system to call his driver ... I was so impressed with the moment and the day ... 

That day and the bunch of flights on a first flight day will forever be etched in my mind ...as an everlasting memory

Tuesday, September 8, 2020

Life’s Doorbell

 We have been in from 

Spring to Autumn


From Cool Warm Hot Humid to Cool Nights


From Unsure scepticism shared pessimism to green shoots of optimism to despair


From self dependent to independent to deeply dependent 


From financial and professional uncertainty to stable comatose to attempts to stay afloat to glide and gasp


Emotionally dependent to distraught to fearfully apart to semblance of satisfaction to apart


From seeing 120 films in 180 days to teaching A Film Marketing course


Cooking over 500 meals to procure prepare present


Through Birthdays and Anniversaries through Celebrations to Sadness..


From Prayers Meditations to Healing to Superlative Superstition 


From tracking numbers to being scared of being a number 


From Communications to long silences 


From thanksgivings to admonished from pedestal to pavement to podium 


From Fun smiles to loosing temper to ones In close proximity 


From make do hair cuts and hair colors and walking miles within the house


From peaceful to worried nights


From repetitive news to reading depleted newsprint 


From adjusting investment portfolio to selling and contemplation a newer car a few dreamy days


From paying bills and begging people for help and helping people we can 


From online purchases to online entertainment to online meetings to online classes to a seldom online drink with a friend 


A few sorrows fewer joys a induced living with dreams of living in the mountains by a brook side cottage...


Suddenly the Bell rings ...

Life’s doorbell has to be answered

Friday, June 26, 2020

Tales From Mayapuri

Tales from Mayapuri
Pakodas to Pep up an ordinary meal...
The Story goes, I used to go often to Mayapuri  Army Vehicles Disposal Market And miscellaneous motor vehicles and motor parts ... you could buy a Dodge Gun carrier to Jonga Jeep to a Russian Vaz  to German Mercedes Mog ... I was refitting my Pajero and building my MM550 Jeep..
The market had many rogue vendors as the name suggests.. it’s Mayapuri .. but also many honest salesmen and mechanics.

I have realised in life the more you trust people, the better they perform. I always and will be a believer of the Theory Y of Mc Gregors Theory X and Theory Y .. ahem at least at..Work.

So I started working with Goyal Motors and Hanuman the Mechanic. Maya Purim is also known for the  famous Family Khalsa Dhaba .. known for its Garlic water and Ghee Roast Mutton and Brain Curry amongst other things where I have had the audacity to take my elitist friends and enjoyed the experience..

So back to building my off-roading vehicles and the main protagonist, the Pakora Story.

So all the the mechanics and Jeep builders would huddle around for lunch, ( incidentally all the hard working Indians, and all South Indians take their Tea- Break and Lunch Break very seriously).

So watching them all lunching would be delightful.. all sat around in a circle ⭕️ opening the Lunch boxes of .. Roti Subzi or Roti Dal .. but to pep up their meal they would order Mixed Pakodas from a special shop and would gather around the kilo of Pakodas like a royal feast adevour the crumbs too and make a handsome meal of a mundane meal..

Inspired by them , during the long and over a 90 day day and nowtouching a 100 days lockdown, I pep up our sometimes  ordinary and mundane meal with mixed Pakodas or one type or the other with Chutneys to Pep us up and feel alive ....

Sunday, June 21, 2020

A Short gastronomic thriller , an ode to my Dad on Fathers's day

Inspired today to write a short story on  Father's day, everyone thinks of stories of courage and valour and generosity and sensitivity. let me see if this one has any elements of that, and of course its food related as I am an aspirational food writer.

It was the height of summer, (those summers definitely felt hotter than today), we were on a runaway train travelling from Vizag aka Visakhapatnam aka Waltair to New Delhi. There was a Railway strike and this was one of the only trains one the move, as it had already departed.
There was no food,  the journey too was three days long and it was the 70s, no catering ,no dining cars, the runaway train screaming through the Central Indian Plains in the sweltering heat. With depleted rations of snacks, fruit and biscuits and packed meals, we were now looking at the painted empty stations as we whizzed past mofussil towns. Mind it no air conditioning, just open windows and whirring fans.

My Dear Father, a career travelling salesman, decided to get down at Itarsi Junction Station to get some nice food, the next station, he disembarked met the train driver, how long will the train halt, he said 15-20 mins, so he decided to go outside and get some food packed, he told the engine driver,  I will be back before that. Now this we got to know later, he moved out of the station, he took a cycle rickshaw to a Dhaba  (he had heard or knew about it prior, a Sardars Dhaba), got there, packed Keema, Roti and Pyaaz Salad, took the rickshaw and got back.He saw the train slowly moving out of the station.

Meanwhile, me at age 8 and my brother aged 11 and huddled closer to Mom, now what will happen, shall we pull the chain to stop the train, or has he boarded, then why isn't he coming. Then in all the excitement, a co-passenger says, don't worry I saw him running behind the train with food in both hands, he must have boarded, he has boarded. Now worried praying, these were days when the trains weren't interconnected. Now the long wait, Mom anxious, was he left behind, still consoling us. The train wouldn't slow down or stop. The next proposed halt was an hour away, my brother biting his nails, me rubbing my sweaty palms, rolling imaginary dirt. My mother putting up a brave face, like she even does now. The train finally tired out and slowed down, he walks in , as it stopped, with aromatic keema,rotis and onion salad, as he had vanquished the enemy, as he had just climbed the Everest. My Mom scolded him why didn't you drop the food and make a dash for it reach us  our bogey, rather holding on to it. He said, with wry smile, this is precious cargo.

My dad was suddenly the hero of the train or at least among'st all  those around us. We ate a very hearty and most memorable meal. He did show, valour , courage, sensitivity and took a risk for his family all rolled into one at that hot summer day at Itarsi Junction. Happy Father's Day Dad.